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KingKamli
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Jan-30-09, 05:30 PM (CST)
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"Good Doctor Bad Doctor"
 
   Hi Guys

Dont know if this one has been addressed before but
I just wanted to throw this one out to the general board, about how ppl's experience has been when approaching their doctor to get tested.

My own personal experience has been quite good and positive, my doctor was happy to do whatever to help me, i am still finding out with me btw if it is GHSV but it seems to be okay, i think my doctor was really cool about it and said he would leave no stone unturned so its refreshing when your Doc is on hand to support you, he even managed to refer me to the derm who i am seeing next week free of charge, i was considering wether to take the IGG test again which i had 10 weeks to post exposure which turned out negative i know the bench mark is usually 12 -16 but a lot seroconvert before, i went in to see the doc today as i wanted to thank him for his support so i asked him if i was able to take the IGG test again he said thats no problem if i wanted to..i said i would go see the derm next week and get their opinion ..i have not had a OB as such since i got those red type of pimples on shaft around end of Aug which went away within a couple of days ..but the main thing that has helped me is the support from the doc, i think i will know more after the derm appointment .. but i can honestly say that is a GOOD DOCTOR experience


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starratt
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Jan-30-09, 09:45 PM (CST)
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1. "RE: Good Doctor Bad Doctor"
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   Hang onto your doctor!

Sometimes things like this turn out to be a big nothing. By that I mean the irritation clears up never to come back again. Every blood test comes back negative and the symptoms never recurr.

However. Your doctor has taken the situation seriously and is willing to do every reasonable test (and a few unreasonable ones by the sounds of things) to make sure you aren't dealing with something you need to do something about.

More importantly, he isn't treating you like a hypochondriac. He's being supportive and not just telling you to go home and forget about it.

There are many doctors out there that are like this, but unfortunately there are just as many who fall a tad short (or more than a tad).

My doctor is on the good list too. Unfortunately he isn't taking any new patients at the moment, otherwise I'd post his info.

Be well,
Lorraine

Hoe eet jy 'n olifant? Bietjie vir bietjie.
(Translation from Afrikaans: How do you eat an elephant? Bit by bit.)


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elmos bff
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Jan-30-09, 10:16 PM (CST)
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Doctor talk, I just got a new doctor. I haven't met her yet, but I am so very hesitant because she is a doctor on a military post. I am paranoid about what she might be thinking as I explain my HSV2 situation, and who else might find out. I wish I could keep the one doc who already knows. His nurses were horrible, uninformative, and at times down right rude, but he wasn't too bad. I am dreading having to tell the new one, and in order to get the suppresives I will have too.

"Many issues could be solved by the acceptance of differences---- which is tolerance"


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C16679admin
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Jan-30-09, 10:35 PM (CST)
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3. "RE: Good Doctor Bad Doctor"
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   Elmo--I wouldn't worry about explaining your situation. I mean, I think it's more than fine to just tell her you are HSV-II positive and that you prefer to be on suppressives. The details really aren't relevent if you don't choose to share them. Haha, in my experience most doctors are rushing you so much that they are very happy with the least detail necessary. Also, I certainly believe that all docs have an obligation to behave professionally, but it never hurts to have an air of matter-of-factness and the presumption that you're not saying anything shameful or really shocking to influence the attitude you expect to receive from them. Really it's the same as any other history you're giving them--you can relay the info. the same way as you might say, I have a heart condition and this is the medicine I've been treating it with. Nothin' fancy.

C.


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elmos bff
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Jan-31-09, 08:25 PM (CST)
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4. "RE: Good Doctor Bad Doctor"
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LAST EDITED ON Jan-31-09 AT 08:26 PM (CST)
 
Well C. the problem is, it's not necessarily me I am too worried about. One guy whose wife got an std and went to the doctor on post and the next thing you know guys from his unit are harping on him big time. Talking mean, and making fun of him. So really I am more afraid for my husband. I think this is one of the reasons he doesn't really want to get tested. I'll probably have to talk him into an anonymous on line on I guess. I do appreciate your always kind and helpful advice

"Many issues could be solved by the acceptance of differences---- which is tolerance"


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Lenore
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Jan-31-09, 08:40 PM (CST)
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5. "RE: Good Doctor Bad Doctor"
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   When you see a doctor it's supposed to be confidential, even on a military base. If I was you, I would let the doctor know right away that you are very concerned about confidentiality because of the situation that you were describing. Any breach in confidentiality is violating the HIPPA law. I would also just approach this as a very routine medical condition, which it is.

I grew up in a small town and I don't live there anymore, but everyone knew everyone's business. Every so often, one of my patients will be someone I know from my old town. I always make sure that they understand that I don't talk to anyone outside the hospital about what goes on in the hospital(other than general stuff like this). I tell them not to expect my parents to ask about their surgery or whatever.


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